Go back to the post from job above and make sure to do all the reading he linked. Notice that there is a thread on validation. You need to stop getting into back and forth discussions with her. You should listen and validate.
I'd also suggest a moratorium on social media. More newcomers stroke I with social media because of what they see on there from their WAS. Going SM free is highly freeing.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018