Hey Monaco, sorry that you are here. However, you sound like you’ve been doing the right things..dropping 95 lbs is no small feat!!! My H behaved similarly like yours. After BD he would still tell me he loves me. I know it’s something within him that is off. He loves me, but he cannot be with me at the moment. You are right to let your H go and figure out what he has to figure out. Be patient, stay strong. Hugs.
