Js, I can't write as much as I'd like right now, but I just want to say that we all have ownership in our intermarital problems. However, intermarital problems never ever ever ever ever justify going extramarital. So own and work on your shortcomings that led to marital issues. But understand that her extramarital activities (moving out, starting an affair) are all on her. Do not excuse her behavior nor justify it. It is inexcusable and unjustified. Period.
I have more to say so I will be back.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018