I actually went to bars a bit when I was in limbo. Going out and having fun like that was something I had done fairly often. Now, I am a bit younger.

One caveat, I knew not to get drunk because that would make me very emotional and I didn't want to contact or beg my then WW.

I found interaction with women when I was out, and noticed my thoughts became more positive, my attitude turned into one where I knew I could get through my sitch, and that other women would still desire me. How foolish was I to think otherwise....


H 34
W 29
BD 3/12/18
Divorce Busted Spring 19

It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.