My W asked me to if she could spend the evening with me and our son last night (first time in 12 months). After we our son went down to sleep we had a glass of wine and listened to a podcast and chatted. All in all it was very enjoyable. She's definitely working her way back to the girl I know (still keeping expectations out of the equation, just enjoying time I have with whoever I'm with).
She invited me to her birthday dinner next weekend with her family (3 members have bday's close to each other).
What was interesting is that I'm in the process of researching a new business venture that involve leasing out some space close to home here. She is aware of the plan and last night said: "Well let me throw a wrinkle in there. I know you mentioned you'd like to be closer to family and friends and if we work this out I'd be ok with moving closer to friends. We'd also have to figure out my mom and maybe we get an in-law suite".
I took it in stride and said:"Yes, those would be some things to think about. Being close to friends would definitely help our social life".
The interesting thing to me is that the location she mentioned is where all of MY friends (her's too but mine originally) are and she made a comment that even though she has some friends here (new friends) she'd be willing to move closer to where our friends are.
She has a lot going on inside her head at the moment. Trying just to roll with it and stay grounded.
H 37 W 31 S 2
T: 7 M: 4
BD 12/18 Separated 2/19 Living back together 04/06/2019 W Moved out again 07/15/2019
