How do I Save this?

[HesAble]

Thanks so much HesAble. We've had a few ups and downs and haven't been intimate since a few days before Christmas. We are in a really nice place though of friendly caring energy, lots of flexibility and working on the house together.

How are things going for you? Does it feel good to split the finances? I make more money than he does... so we are trying to split it out in a ratio that makes sense for our incomes and his physical labour around the house.

I also make considerably more than my H so we split ours up based on that. Because he spends a LOT and saves essentially nothing, I am feeling better now that our finances are split. I am able to save more and I don't have to stress about whether he is overspending.