Job - Thank you! I feel like I’ve made soooo many mistakes after finding this site. His family reached out to me and I’ve since met with MIL and SIL. Both of our families have always been very loving and supportive but his much more from an aloof distance (which I’m coming to understand has had a deeper impact on him than I ever could have realized). MIL was very matter of fact when she said to me “well these things happen” where as SIL I think knows /realizes something isn’t right at all. SIL invited me out before Xmas, MIL ended up coming too .... I was so nervous and didn’t know what to say, how much to say...in the end I told the truth of what I believed was happening in that we did not just grow apart and that I believe it is some sort of MLC. I know my SIL has more questions and wants to stay in touch but I don’t know how much to say and what not to say. I feel like I’ve already said to much, but at this point people in my corner keep telling me “what do I have to lose”. I get so confused.
