No rain here in this fabulous parade. I'm trying to ignore the grand gestures because, honestly, I don't trust it yet. Every fiber of my heart wants it to be true, but it feels like a pipe dream. Therefore, I value realistic and honest opinions. They keep me grounded.
Originally Posted by Yail
1) WW has stated that OW has become pushy and it wasn't working. She also states she knows she wants a future with you. Really listen carefully to her reasoning, and determine if it is enough for you. Does she want to be with you because it wasn't working with OW, or because she wants YOU as a life partner with all of your glory and faults.
The way she spoke it seemed to be more of the latter. She was very clear that she thought if she left me, that they would have a successful relationship and could be very happy. WW also felt very clear about the fact that, although it could be a great relationship, she did not feel like she wanted to open up on a deeper level with OW as I have historically been that person for her.
As far as intimacy goes, I think we're a long way from that. One of her biggest fears is that she won't be able to connect with me in that way anymore. Side note: we always had a fantastic sex life and have both acknowledged that it was never an issue. We shall see where the cookie crumbles.
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LBW 32 - me WW 31 T 7 M 4 No Kids 4 dogs
Separated 1y Navigating the mine field and GAL with or without
