I need guidance....
I ran across a blog about abandonment. this fits W to a tee. can I get more incite into this from anyone here?

My first instinct is to break NC, and a tell her I will never abandon her, is that a good idea?

Should I do anything different on my side, or LBS as prescribed?

W Dad abandoned her around 8 year old

Her mom and stepdad were AOL emotionally, and W spent time as a Foster kid for a couple years

I just want to go hold her and try and reassure her I am here, and not going anywhere....what am I suppose to do right now?

she does deserve to feel like this, my heart is so broken for her, and I just want to tell MIL how I feel about it all.

one thing tonight that makes total sense. W's PA looks a lot like stepdad. who was very Emotionally/physically abusive while W was young.