Confused and Lost II

[may22]

Hi KG,

Sticking to your guns and telling her you aren't ready to reconcile until she can demonstrate through her actions, not just her words, that she's all in was probably really powerful. Great job!! I also think it is healthy that she wants some time to move on from OW. It feels like if you can stick with this, you've successfully removed yourself as the other ping-pong paddle-- whether you went fully NC or not-- you're still not playing the game anymore and she knows it. Time feels important now and so glad to hear you keep the focus on yourself and what makes you happy and fulfilled beyond your W.

Thanks for updating and for all your support-- YOU are an incredibly strong and amazing person and it feels so awesome to watch you take back your power.