Questions from a LBS 5 months in

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HI

Sorry you find yourself here

First I would suggest to get with A Lawyer , just to learn your rights
dont tell him this , just keep it to yourself

Dont agree to any agreements until you get the information
An Attorney can advise you on a free hour consultation what your legally allowed to get (just in case)

As for you,
continue to GAL, stay busy, get counseling, maybe find some new hobby or activity
volunteer, make a new friend, go out ect...

there is not much you can do accept become the best version of you

Your H sounds like a typical MLcer with working out, motorcyle, new clothes
mine did the same


This is a long road and the only way you will know is in time what your H actually does

They talk and many will drag their feet to buy you more time
You can listen and not make any agreements just validate what he is saying

Hang in there
it gets easier