What does she feel happened to necessitate leaving your entire family in one day. I mean she just dropped everything and left. All she did was pack a bag and left everything else behind
I can tell you what I think happened to my WAH. I look back on my 28 year marriage and I don't think he was ever truly happy. Not enough money, he got passed over at work, I'm not good enough, nothing was ever his fault. He couldn't contain his unhappiness anymore so he exploded and ran away.
Since he left me he got promoted, has more money, has friends to hang out with, party with and he got OW. Life is grand proving yet again that I was the problem all along.
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I can't even begin to understand what misinformation she thinks I am feeding D13 because I don't even really talk about her all that much.
The misinformation is likely that you're not taking ownership of everything and singing her praises. She's a great wife and mother just ask her she will tell you. Gag. My WAH has no concept of the part he played in this mess. Yes I made a lot....a lot of mistakes but he wasn't perfect either.
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I laughed that my XW was lecturing a therapist specializing in children on how to be a good mother.
WAH criticized my parenting in front of S19, angry at how lenient I am with D17. S19 said no one cares about this but him. I told S19 that if he wanted to parent differently he shouldn't have left (yes an uncalled for dig). S19 said he didn't parent well when he was here. Touche.
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When D13 goes down to ask to leave XW is as happy and bubbly as ever. How can someone switch on a dime like that and act as if nothing ever happened?
My support group instructor said this is how WAH's brain protects him from facing the truth. He tells himself just enough to go back to being the hero of his own story. It's the therapists fault you know that right?? lol
