Another difficulty is dealing with all the memories of annual things we used to do together as they come up on the calendar now. We used to attend friends' parties, etc. together and now H does not want me to go with him anywhere. It is just painful. It is like they are all his friends now and so I am shut out. I should have done a better job nurturing my own friendships while things were "going well" but I focused so much on the kids and neglected friendships just like I neglected growing our marriage. It is all so sad and I am so full of regrets that I cannot express anywhere but in this forum. If I could just go back, I would do a lot differently but all I can do is focus on now...making new friends now.
Last edited by HesAble; 01/03/2004:55 PM.
H and Me - Both 45; S13 and D9 BD - 11/2019 Married 14 years; Together 20 years
