My W and I have had many conversations about what happened. Many. She told me numerous times that she appreciated that I was available to talk and that it showed a willingness to change. I'm about 8 years ahead of you.
As for your other comment, I didn't realize you thought that and I see this is important to you. I am gonna have to think about that a little more. I appreciate you being so open and honest with me.
Mario, my point is that you can't look back and say "if I did that this would happen". Even if that is what she says. How she would have reacted to tough love may mean you'd be even further ahead than the 8 years you claim now. WHO KNOW??
As far as my feedback, as my favorite Texan TV counselor says: you can't fix what you don't acknowledge.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
