Originally Posted by Woosa

Your head is mostly in the right place!!! Don’t call, don’t text, don’t ask....

My mood was down earlier too, I do find it helpful to concentrate 110% on the kids when they are around. S10 was looking at his baby pictures today and we laughed together on how chubby of a baby he was. H is missing all these small moments, something he will never get back.



You are right. My H is missing out on a lot of things with the kids as well. What bothers me so much though is that apparently he places no value in those family moments. I am not sure he will ever realize what he has missed. Even before DB when things were "going well," he was missing so much because he was seldom at home or with us.

Last edited by HesAble; 01/03/20 03:47 PM.
H and Me - Both 45; S13 and D9
BD - 11/2019
Married 14 years; Together 20 years