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all your questions and thoughts are valid

If I did this or that?
would it make a difference
probably not-

some things may help you:
being patient, kind and compassionate
living your life
gal, being upbeat and fun may when appropriate..
being mysterious ect,
making a new life friends
activities,
staying busy
and being available at times when it appears he is doing the leading...when he wants to engage and letting go of him
finding support, grieving and healing

We do these to adjust to our new normal
and we can watch from a distance to see where our H land
You will get clues and you watch his actions



and it is definitely harder to live with them


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow