Hi, HesAble. I know it’s hard. I don’t have any easy answers—my H has been coming and going and sometimes not coming home for months now. It’s gotten easier to focus on myself and look forward to the times he’s gone as times when I can relax, but I still feel a twinge when he leaves without saying goodbye. Hang in there. You’re not alone.
Cardinal, thanks for the encouraging words. I hate when H leaves without saying goodbye too which is more often than not here lately. This too shall pass. You hang in there too.
H and Me - Both 45; S13 and D9 BD - 11/2019 Married 14 years; Together 20 years