The staying out all night is really starting to affect me more and more. I experience anxiety not knowing which random nights he will stay out then depression when he does. Should I tell him that if he needs to stay out all night 2 and 3 times a week, perhaps being "separated" by living in the basement is not a good idea. I can't kick him out but I can ask him to make a choice. He needs his own place with this lifestyle? Or should I just say nothing and continue watching this nightmare unfold for a certain time period (3-6 months)?

Last edited by HesAble; 01/03/20 03:46 AM.
H and Me - Both 45; S13 and D9
BD - 11/2019
Married 14 years; Together 20 years