HaWho had a live in h for a long time. She is a very good example of having a live in who lived in the basement in his "dorm room" for quite some time. He eventually moved out and they are now divorced, but she is a survivor. Her threads are well worth the time to read them.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
