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Re: How do I Save this? WestM #2878484 01/02/20 05:27 PM
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Ready2Change Member R Joined: Mar 2008 Posts: 9,350 Likes: 310 Colorado	Originally Posted by WestM HI - just wondering if anyone has had experience with being the one who had too many other things going on in their life outside of spouse. GAL doesn't make a lot of sense to me as I have such a full life outside of my family. What I need to do is be with my husband or available to him... does that make sense to anyone? Originally Posted by WestM I wondered about GAL - because I already had such a full life without him... that was part of the reason we grew so distant and disconnected. He's very much a quieter person and I am very much an ideas person... growing community, meeting people, developing ideas. I don't want to recreate the situation by continuing to grow my life without him. I was full GAL at bomb drop.So was W. Absolutely be available to him, but do not do this in a needy way. Do not do it in a pursuing way. Learn as much as you can about attractions and seduction. There is a big difference. During this stage of the process, you really want to be seductive. Seduction is very counter-intuitive if you are not already skilled in this area. There is a link in this post to the books I found helpful: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2870386 Spend some time reading the quotes in those threads as well. They are filled with wisdom. "What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712

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How do I Save this?	WestM	12/31/19 01:06 AM
Re: How do I Save this?	job	12/31/19 12:05 PM
Re: How do I Save this?	Ready2Change	12/31/19 08:50 PM
Re: How do I Save this?	WestM	01/01/20 04:11 PM
Re: How do I Save this?	job	01/01/20 04:44 PM
If I was distant in M, do I keep distance now?	WestM	01/01/20 04:56 PM
Re: If I was distant in M, do I keep distance now?	job	01/01/20 04:59 PM
Re: If I was distant in M, do I keep distance now?	WestM	01/01/20 05:20 PM
GAL for those who had too much of a life!	WestM	01/02/20 06:35 AM
Re: GAL for those who had too much of a life!	Cadet	01/02/20 09:59 AM
Re: How do I Save this?	WestM	01/02/20 04:30 PM
Re: How do I Save this?	WestM	01/01/20 04:58 PM
Re: If I was distant in M, do I keep distance now?	WestM	01/04/20 03:23 AM
Re: How do I Save this?	HesAble	12/31/19 10:22 PM
Re: How do I Save this?	WestM	01/01/20 04:08 PM
Re: If I was distant in M, do I keep distance now?	HesAble	01/04/20 04:25 AM
Re: If I was distant in M, do I keep distance now?	WestM	01/04/20 05:00 PM
Re: How do I Save this?	SteveLW	01/02/20 02:24 PM
Re: How do I Save this?	WestM	01/02/20 04:26 PM
Re: How do I Save this?	SteveLW	01/02/20 04:40 PM
Re: How do I Save this?	WestM	01/02/20 04:57 PM
Re: How do I Save this?	Ready2Change	01/02/20 05:27 PM
Re: If I was distant in M, do I keep distance now?	SteveLW	01/04/20 03:53 AM
Re: If I was distant in M, do I keep distance now?	WestM	01/04/20 05:08 PM
Re: If I was distant in M, do I keep distance now?	ovrrnbw	01/04/20 05:17 PM
Re: If I was distant in M, do I keep distance now?	WestM	01/05/20 05:51 PM
Re: If I was distant in M, do I keep distance now?	SteveLW	01/05/20 06:38 PM
Re: If I was distant in M, do I keep distance now?	WestM	01/05/20 07:04 PM
Re: If I was distant in M, do I keep distance now?	SteveLW	01/05/20 09:32 PM
Re: If I was distant in M, do I keep distance now?	WestM	01/06/20 04:05 AM
Re: If I was distant in M, do I keep distance now?	kas99	01/06/20 04:25 AM
Re: If I was distant in M, do I keep distance now?	DejaVu6	01/06/20 05:06 AM
Re: If I was distant in M, do I keep distance now?	WestM	01/08/20 04:18 PM
Re: If I was distant in M, do I keep distance now?	WestM	01/16/20 12:28 AM
Re: If I was distant in M, do I keep distance now?	WestM	01/16/20 02:09 AM
Re: If I was distant in M, do I keep distance now?	DejaVu6	01/16/20 03:02 AM
Re: If I was distant in M, do I keep distance now?	WestM	01/16/20 03:10 AM
Re: If I was distant in M, do I keep distance now?	WestM	03/29/20 03:00 AM
Re: If I was distant in M, do I keep distance now?	wooba	03/29/20 03:56 AM
Re: If I was distant in M, do I keep distance now?	WestM	03/29/20 09:58 PM
Re: If I was distant in M, do I keep distance now?	wooba	03/30/20 02:21 PM
Re: If I was distant in M, do I keep distance now?	WestM	03/31/20 10:45 PM
Re: If I was distant in M, do I keep distance now?	WestM	03/30/20 04:17 PM
Re: If I was distant in M, do I keep distance now?	Traveler	03/30/20 05:04 PM
Re: If I was distant in M, do I keep distance now?	WestM	03/31/20 10:46 PM
Re: If I was distant in M, do I keep distance now?	WestM	04/11/20 06:40 PM
Re: If I was distant in M, do I keep distance now?	wooba	04/12/20 01:56 PM
Re: If I was distant in M, do I keep distance now?	WestM	04/16/20 03:49 AM
Re: If I was distant in M, do I keep distance now?	Traveler	04/16/20 07:32 AM
Re: If I was distant in M, do I keep distance now?	WestM	04/16/20 08:22 PM
Re: If I was distant in M, do I keep distance now?	Traveler	04/16/20 07:53 AM

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