1- I have a sig but not sure why it doesn't show. I don't see any. Changed some settings to see if that worked.
2- I've read up a bit on boundaries. Besides walking away from a conversation, I see no where else I hold power to enforce a boundary. I think she pushes talking in front of the kids as a passive aggressive way to end the marriage. I told her before we did counseling years back that if she argued with me in front of the kids, it would drive me away to protect myself and the kids.
Contempt and hate towards W slowly continue to build in me while W continues her emotional reactions and as I see no end to limbo. How did you others find the patience and how did you not fill with hate when being treated so poorly? A small sliver of me now thinks W may come out of her ways eventually but at what cost.
H37, W37 D4, S2 ILYBNILWY 9/19 BD 9/19 EA discovered 10/19 Currently in limbo, no D or S process initiated
