I am so glad you came by and posted an update. Your resolutions sound like some easy ones and they are all about you and things you can control.
Sounds like things are still going okay. I'm sorry our S is having a hard time w/school. If he likes his teacher, that is a plus and she's willing to help him. Glad to hear that D is doing well.
You are trying to rationalize w/someone who can't or won't hear what you are saying about her childhood and projecting it on to her own children. Kyh, you are great father and you are doing all that you can for your children. They know you are there for them.
Hang in there! Please take care of yourself.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
