Newlywed and in crisis

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FFHubby,

Thank you. I got to read your thread a bit. I'm sorry about your D. All is better for you now I hope.

It brings me comfort to know someone has gone through a similar situation (being newlywed then suddenly BD). Although, you had a lot more things going on in your sitch (the distance, your injury, depression, and in-laws). It made me realized that it could be worse for me and that I am perhaps in a better position to turn this around. I should be thankful with what I have I guess. It does give me a bit of hope.

Some of your description of your ex sounds similar to my W. About her being more conflict avoidant, about her not putting you as first priority. Just want to know what did you learn and how did you deal with a person like that?