I saw H commented inappropriately on another woman's social media post (not the first time) and now I am feeling like what is the use in standing for this shell of a marriage? What is left of it to even stand for? I don't know how long I can deal with his disrespectful behavior.
I filed as soon as I found about the OW (and I need money) so I'm probably not the one to give advice. My WAH tells D14 which women he thinks are "hot". One is a former teacher of my kids (that stung). So lets recap he's married, he's got OW and he's still trolling for women. I'm so sad.
Hugs to you. Sorry you are here. It has been so hard for me to maintain my forgiving spirit and to keep standing for my marriage when H is so disrespectful, so I can imagine how painful this has been for you. I have been trying to detach, GAL, etc., but just when I think I can, H does something else to make me regress into negative emotions.
H and Me - Both 45; S13 and D9 BD - 11/2019 Married 14 years; Together 20 years
