Steve and Mario, I think you were right. I think she was 2nd guessing the D or truly didnt want it. Didnt key word as I strayed from your advice again. My patience ran out today and I started an R talk. I status checked and got my grapes squashed. I asked what her plan was and she stated that we were taking time but are roomates. Shouldve left it at that but I asked what that meant. I validated for awhile, then I interjected my own issues with her affair and how she never truly apologized or showed remorse. After I had her on the defensive, she immediately brought up mediation and wants to start it in the new year.
She stepped away from the argument, mentioned she could never love me and wants to continue talking tomorrow. Heed the advice of the vets everyone.
Quick urgent advice, what do I do during our talk, just validate?
H37, W37 D4, S2 ILYBNILWY 9/19 BD 9/19 EA discovered 10/19 Currently in limbo, no D or S process initiated
