I am praying for strength to endure these marital problems. I have an appointment with my IC in January. Part of the "homework" the IC assigned relates to GAL. So perhaps I should get busy with that and with focusing more on my career (the end of Nov. & beginning of Dec. was not my most productive time at work to say the least).

Another issue is the loneliness. I was already somewhat lonely before DB, but now I feel super lonely. I try to spend more time with family and friends but there is a loneliness that it seems only a partner can fill. Praying that God fill that void because I know He can.

Last edited by HesAble; 12/30/19 09:35 PM.

H and Me - Both 45; S13 and D9
BD - 11/2019
Married 14 years; Together 20 years