Finally told me that she is going to Mexico with him, I knew she was going, but she hadn't said anything or told me dates. All I responded was I just need dates and nothing else, because she asked how much I wanted to know.
How much does she think I want to know?!
Lovingly detach? How do I do that? At this point she's picking him over everything else in her life. Kids, family, friends, morals, values. I seriously don't want to have interactions with her, she wants to visit when I drop kids off, not about kids, but like best freaking friends. I pretty much drop the kids off, say "Hey" with a smile and leave. It hurts so much to try and talk, hurts less to have no interactions. that's probably not lovingly detaching but after 5 months of this I'm tired of all the hurt and pain of here acting like I'm supposed to just accept this and be her freaking friend as everything else falls apart.
Me 34 Her 34 T:16 years M:11 4 Daughters: 10,7,6,3 Her EA May 2019 Separated July 30th 2019 Her PA Started August 1st, 2019 Filed October 3rd, 2019
