Here's the problem I have. He can in theory at least, go down and finalize this divorce he filed in 2 weeks. That is causing me gigantic stress and fear. About two weeks ago, I asked him straight out if he was going to it and he said he didn't want to talk about it. Wow. I gave him a chance to tell me he was going to and he didn't.
This means if you confront him now he isn't going to tell you the truth. He's already filed so your options are limited. My situation is different from yours in that there is OW so I filed a month ago. I was going to have to file soon for support anyway the OW just made the decision as to when easier.
