Look P I’m not Nostradamus. That’s how 95% of these situations end up. More divorces our filed in January then any other month. In the long run it doesn’t matter who files. I suggest that you go completely dark, get all your ducks in a row and get ready for a nasty divorce because your W is going to try to take you for everything she can.
I’m a really sorry but years down the road you will see this was for the best.
I agree this is best. I've some what pushed her into a corner and I understand that I have made my situation a lot worse. Her actions ultimately put us in this mess. I made a ton of mistakes. Telling the OM's wife which got him removed and exposed it to the community, telling my family, and worse of all telling her parents which are totally against infidelity. I just hope I don't end up dead broke from all of this mess.
The worse part of all is the credit card debt which we will have to split. I have enough equity in the house that once i sell it I can be out of debt.
