Thanks LH - I'm going to get back to what I was doing. No Contact, validate when appropriate, GAL, dress well, PMA and just keep moving forward. She starts counselling in January but no guarantees she sticks with it as she's yet to follow through with any consistency. She's admitted in round about ways that she's been depressed. I've been proud of how I've continued to stick by her during all this but I'm learning that there isn't really anything I can "do" to help her through this...she has to want to do it herself.
I'm also going to have to figure out my living situation which would involve a separation agreement most likely. I've stopped the bleeding financially but I'm definitely not saving any money. I think the best move for me and my son is to move and use the money from the house (invest in some dividend stocks) to help pay monthly rent. This way I'll be able to start saving some money. Probably 2-3 months away but it's on my radar.
I've signed my son up for Music class on Tuesdays and soccer Saturday mornings and I'm going to start getting a sitter every other weekend so I can go see some friends.
H 37 W 31 S 2
T: 7 M: 4
BD 12/18 Separated 2/19 Living back together 04/06/2019 W Moved out again 07/15/2019
