Shortly after BD my mind was a mess, and I kept thinking about getting out ASAP because I cannot “waste time” with someone who is not there for me. But slowly my mentality changed and I decided to stand. Not for an infinite amount of time but for the time being. Later when my H asked me for more time, I told him that we’ve been together for 10+ years, I can give you at least a few months. Which I think is the same in your sitch, you are still pretty new in this, give yourself some time to decide. You may feel different everyday, and with time you will have more clarity. It’s hard I know, but I am three months in and I didn’t think I’d make it this far either.
