Stranger In My House

[HesAble]

Thanks, Woosa. I cannot wait until I come out on the other side! In the midst of my grief, I sent him a text to see how things went with his triip back from the holidays to which he has not yet responded. I am determined to now go dim (only communication about joint bills or about the children) and detach.

Also I know what you all say about not believing what my WH/MLC spouse says, but this is becoming hard. Maybe he is right. Maybe he cannot be the spouse I need. Maybe he has thought about this long and hard and the right thing to do Is move on. This is one of the hardest things I have ever done - trying to stand alone for my marriage when my spouse has completely checked out.