Gerda - I felt we had a connection in person. Like we could possibly be friends in another time and place. I was so glad to meet you. Hope you have a wonderful trip.
My vacation with the kids was great. S22 seemed to love being in the big city. D20 was overwhelmed by the massive crowds, and had a few difficult moments. We worked through them and she persevered. We saw lots, ate lots, and it was nice being away from home together.
Tomorrow we go back to regular routine. I have a document to review with the attorney, and then I think the marriage settlement agreement will be ready for H to review. Happy New Year to him!
I don't think he has any fight in him, or the desire either, to fight the D.
D seems to be in the cards for me.
I never wanted the hand I was dealt. But, it's there all the same. I just have to play the best hand I can to get the best I can for myself. That's really the only thing in my control.