Peace and joy continue to beckon

[Rita]

Meeting you was AMAZING! I learned so much from talking in person -- what you were saying about just wanting your half might have seemed really simple to you but I have been thinking about it ever since. You have a lot of clarity in thinking and not doubting yourself that in person is really inspiring. It was the mantra I needed since my H filed last year. It is such a clear way to see a sort of acceptance of his choice to D -- e.g., okay, I accept you are filing but you have to give me half. I wish I had thought of that simple mantra and understood it last year,I wouldn't have wasted so much time and money and agony. I don't know if I will get what is fair but it is a way for me to have a simple vision in my head.

The wallet theft was pretty incredible -- they spent $6000 in 45 minutes plus my cash. Not kidding. I have never had anything stolen from me here, just bikes I forgot to lock. But I am sure God has a plan there too, and yes, it didn't overshadow the meeting at all.

For all who know Grace in DB world, I can assure you IRL she is as lovely outside as in!