hello, she moved out 2 days before Thanksgiving, D4 and S3 'live' with her, she wants shared custody. D15 lives with SIL 2 hours away. that's a whole other story. that was against my better judgement, and I really didn't seem to have any choice at the time. W goes and picks her up almost every weekend. she does not seem to want to talk to me. I just reaffirm that I love her.
I do believe in positive self talk. my problem is I let myself sink into a pit and not give it any thought. I need more practice.