“Hoosjim” Should I GAL and do 180’s even as I go dark. For example, she has texted me tonight but I have not replied. I just need to really get involved with my job. I’ve been doing that and I work long hours. She doesn’t mind this as it will give her an opportunity to have her rendezvous with him at his new home in town.
I’m having a hard time GAL and doing 180’s when I know she is up to no good. Eventually I will need to file for divorce to keep my sanity. You see as long as I’m staying gone with work, her living in the home, using the same checking account etc... I believe she will just continue to become more and more secretive and deceptive with the OM.
If I file and begin to move on she will have to decide whether or not she will sign the papers. I’m still hoping she will move out. She wants to but her parents will not have her because she is involved with the OM. Heck she got pissed about the real estate agent coming over. She then claimed we can sell it for what the tax accessor’s office has it appraised for. Another reason she didn’t want her coming over is because we know her personally. She would see all my wife’s stuff crammed into the office bedroom that has no closet. Lol.
She went to Walmart to get a hanging rack for her clothes. “Hoosjim”, do you think I should sit tight and just ignore her and cut off all communication with her except in regards to the children?
