Can you block her phone number-- and tell her you're doing so, at least for some period of time? Are there things you can plan for ahead of time to make it more difficult for her to reach you? Could you plan to go see your friend you saw before in the city for a few days to get out of town? It sounds very likely that it will play out as it has in the past, so being as prepared as possible to give yourself the time and space YOU need and not letting her interfere with that seems important.
Me (46) H (42) M:14 T:18, D9 & D11 4/19 - 12/19: series of escalating BDs 9/20 - present: R and piecing
