I like the advice "hoosjim" gives about going dark. I need to go dark all the way around. Part of my problem is calling my mom and her parents calling me to discuss the situation. I've probably told all of them way to much information. This has only made my situation worse.
I understand that I am falling in line with what Curtis7 has done in his situation. Being manipulative or passive-aggressive and making her isolated to my family and her family. Also the boys know way to much and they are beginning to resent her as well. She has mentioned that in the past. I know this isn't all on me however, as she is in another town 2 hours away for the weekend and our youngest son is sick. I carried him to the Dr. this morning so he is living through this as well.
He doesn't like the fact that she is out partying and obviously she will blame me for him feeling this way. I say that is BS and just a way of justifying her actions. Anytime these things happen it becomes a mess all the way around. I'm just blessed my sons are older.
