I have a hard time keeping track of everyone's details. Skimmed your thread.
Spending time with your kids is GAL. It is still important for you to do your thing as well.
Do not move out of the house. She wants out, she moves out. Stand firm on this.
If you are not currently in the MBR, you should be.
This is one big test of your manhood. It is important to pass the test. Stand on your core values. Your job as the man is to protect your family. Right now, you are protecting the family from your wife's poor decisions. Lead your family though this.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
