"Walking Out Of The Valley"

[joejoe1]

BB,

Start by stop calling your WW a trophy w. She's no trophy right now. She has never been. My wife hated being treated like she was on a pedestal. She loves being treated like every other person. Guess what, you are going to have to turn your WW sex antics down. It won't be easy, but there are websites to help control that.

This might work for you, because it work for me. I would go by myself for a few moments and get it all out, so when my WW came around, I wasn't interested, I satisfied myself. Remember, you don't need your WW for nothing, not even pleasuring yourself.

I didn't a lot by myself, I went to a bunch of church events, meetup.com events (hiking, outward thinkers and drinkers), skydiving, dinners, and of course the gym). I was always busy, when I didn't have my boys. I made myself busy.

If I had to be at home with her, I would, read a book, or go do yard work. Whatever it took to occupy my mind and body.

But guess what, your wife is no trophy at the moment, and after the dust settle she never will be again. Treat with equality and not above you are any other person. Other people might see her that way, but she's your W and not something to place on a mantle.

Joejoe