Infidelity and divorce is NOT an exciting fantasy... The actuality of it is deceit, and pain, and broken homes, and shattered lives... and she is going to need to see this for herself... Experience it... Before it will sink in with her.
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family, man. Merry Christmas... Make sure you spend as much quality time with your kids as you can.
Her father will not allow her to move in with them. She has nowhere to go. I don’t see her moving out. If I move out then that shows weakness on my part and I spend less time with my sons. Not to mention that when and if I spend time with them she may have him in my house I’m which I’m still paying the mortgage. I told her she needs to move out. If we continue drown this path then eventually I may snap and harm the OM.
She is so wayward all she can see is what is happening in the present moment. She hasn’t planned to move out, to separate our finances, hasn’t thought about kids. All she can see is the fantasy. The fact that she wants to be single, experience this high and thrill everyday, she wants to travel etc.... All of this I believe are promises from the OM.
I had someone coming to look at the house this morning and she adamant about not having it done. Well my son is sick and she decided to spend the weekend in another town with her friend. So I’ve got my son and taking care of him while he is sick. This week has been very exhausting with the information I have found out and the fact that she would leave for the weekend. Oh and it’s his weekend to have the kids so that seems to work in her favor.
Not sure about moving forward but I need her out the house so I can begin to move forward and heal.
