Hahaha!!! Thanks guys.....yeah its really nice. Obviously only been a year but definitely noticeable differences between her and the xw. Essentially the dr makes it easy for me to be a man, she celebrates it. The xw challenged me on everything and eventually I just shut down. Maybe that means the xw and I where just not compatible who knows. She could be totally different with her bf than she was with me which definitely could be the case.