GT thanks for the update. The future always holds hope, no matter what.

Also, here are a few facts I've learned in my studies:

A WAS has about a 1% chance of long-term R success with an affair partner. If they'll cheat with you then they'll cheat on you.

A WAW has a much lower chance of finding long-term R success than does a LBH. WAWs usually find the long-term R prospects slim. LBHs are much more desirable to single women, and even get a "I feel bad for him" dynamic from other women. Single men are just out to get laid and move on.

A WAS will come back at some point wanting to reconcile. I'd put this phenomenon in the upper 90 percent of all separations and D's. This is especially true of WAWs, probably because of the second point above.

So newcomers, your sitch may feel like the end of the world. It's not.

M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018