I would say things to her about splitting up. And told myself it was not to try to snap her it of it.
The truth is that unless you are moving on, filing for D, contacting a lawyer to draw up an agreement, and simply taking action, then you are saying it to snap her out of it. Sorry to be blunt, but you have not gone down any path. You've said some words.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018