Really sorry you are here. It sounds like you are far ahead of me in my sitch with the DB principles.
AS mentioned a similar situation regarding a WAS leaving around 6 months after the marriage, and I seem to think it’s probably my sitch, though she left 11 months in.
I tried linking my story, but I’m having trouble finding it. Job, can you help?
I am spending time with family but have been occasionally checking the forums throughout the day, as my heart breaks for the LBS that has to deal with these things on Christmas.
I plan on checking back in tomorrow to give my perspective as well as an update on my sitch.