Hi all,

I must be one of those stubborn DBers that takes long to learn. I keep getting great advice from all of you and making the same mistakes. Yesterday around 23:45 i sent W a message reading "Merry Christmas W, I hope you three are having a great time". I woke up today without a single reply.

I know its been only two months but clearly reminding her of how much I love her does not work. I need a new strategy. I will also take my MR as dead, act as if I am moving on, and be distantly loving with W (no PM or any communication).

I am leaving my R in the hands of god, your advice guys and the long run future. The GAL and LRT ideas are helping me a lot but I was confident I could offer her something different. This is not on my hands and the pressure to change so many things simultaneously is killing me. What happened yesterday was one of those handless slaps that get you to your heart. I will leave her alone, even if it is the last thing I do for her and I end up losing her.

Thanks a lot, you are my strongest support!


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Me 29 W:29
M: 5yrs T:10yrs
S:6 yrs S:1 yr
BD: "I want a D" 08/09/19
Sep: 10/27/19