Surreal night at family gathering with W. She was her usual cheerful self with everyone there but avoided me. People were asking questions about what was going on. I stayed focused on the kids. W left gathering to go to sister in law’s but I’m 99 percent sure she went somewhere else instead. Going to do my best to remain at least indifferent toward her for Christmas, but I’m about at end of my rope as far as d-bing goes. She’s not coming back. Need to change course after New Year.
With that, I’d like to wish everyone here a merry Christmas and happy holidays. Your support is worth more than you know.
Dude,
DBing is for you, not for her. You might have started to get your wife back, but the main goal of DBing is to get yourself back, even more so, to rebuild yourself into the new and improved version of yourself and to become a man only a fool would leave.
