[/quote] You legally can't kick a spouse of the house. You just can't. There might be legal consequences to doing so. I would advise against this action unless you've spoken to an attorney. I know many will disagree and say it's taking your bal$$ back but your W will never see it this way.
And before everyone jumps all over me. I'm not saying that he shouldn't be strong or take action against his wife. [/quote]
I can not and will not throw her things out. I know this would be wrong, however I have asked her to leave in light of her meeting up and being intimate with him. I feel like this is the right thing for her to do. I am not trying to be vindictive but I do feel like I shouldn’t have to move out and that just adds to the pain and suffering already endured up to this point. I would think most people would agree. If you cheat-lie-deceive, you should be the one to move out. At least the kids and the BS are protected from these lies and deception.
Of course she doesn’t have to leave and she knows this already. She can continue living in another room. As far as the MB goes, she is not allowed to be in this room. I have been forgiving and she admitted last night that she can’t stop talking to him. If she isn’t here then I don’t have to worry about where or what she is doing when she leaves or if she is on her phone. I also get to see my boys everyday and spend time with them. Merry Christmas!!!