Guys..This site is not private. There are controls to limit access. Mainly registering and moderation on the posts. So there is some protection there, but most of you are kidding yourself if you think more than a few spouses haven't found this site and learned how people were telling all the bad things about them (even if true)
It's always a risk with a site like this. LBS have to understand that. We tend to think the site is private and secure. It's just like anything. You get comfortable and probably have a false sense of security.
In the long run, it won't change anything one way or another.
