I have promised my sister and a close friend that I will have a holiday moratorium on talking about H (now better known as the Stranger In My House), even though there of course is much I have to say. Thank goodness for this board where I can vent during the holidays. I do want to enjoy the holidays (my first holiday in over 14 years celebrating without H). It is tough but I am doing all I can. I already broke the moratorium atleast 3 times today.
H has mentioned that we should spend time with the kids together tomorrow. I am a little nervous because out of town family will be around, most who have no idea about our marital troubles. Any tips for handling this situation if H actually follows through with the plan to see us?
----------------------------------------- H and Me - Both 45; S13 and D9 BD - 11/2019 Married 14 years; Together 20 years
Last edited by HesAble; 12/25/1903:53 AM.
H and Me - Both 45; S13 and D9 BD - 11/2019 Married 14 years; Together 20 years
